Redhot Bitch-- You were outstanding in your first bondage scene! It was not THE best BDSM scene I've had with a lady, but it was awfully close. For only your second scene with Master, you should be very proud of yourself. You have caught on well to the Dom/sub dynamic, and I hope you're enjoying it as much as Master is! For a beginner, you lack just one skill, but it's a crucial one, and we'll be working on it. A Master controlling when and how his sub orgasms is the quintessence of a Dom/sub relationship. It epitomizes a Master's sexual control of a sub, and her yielding to His power over her. And it can be a source of tremendous pleasure for both Master and sub. It's challenging over chat because it's hard to see, hear and feel the cues that both partners need to bring you to the brink of orgasm, and then deny it, again and again, before tipping you just over the edge into a deep abyss of total bliss. That's why, for maximum fulfillment, you MUST ask me for permission to cum before you do. It's the need-ask-deny-ease off cycle that builds the sexual tension that will ultimately get you off in a far more satisfying way than just one long steady vibe. I'm sorry if I wasn't clear on the asking and thanking part. To review: What are we doing right now? Correct response: "Whatever my Master desires for His pleasure." Will you touch yourself? Correct response: "Only as my Master directs me." Will you cum WITHOUT PERMISSION? Correct response: "No, Master." And during an orgasm, you will say: "I serve you, Master," so I know you are cumming. When the orgasm is over, you will say: "Thank you, Sir." These you did well last time. And if you squirt where Master can't see, tell Him. But to my feedback: Sticking out your long tongue made the EAGER-TO-PLEASE position so much hotter! Well done. I love to see your pretty tongue out! If we tie your long legs, they need to be straight, spread wide, and stretched out to their limit. The idea is to make you feel trapped, like you can't escape whatever Master is doing to you. The airbed was brilliant. I've never been with someone who would slurp her own squirt, and that was WAY BEYOND sexy! Hope it turned you on as much as it did me. Try to memorize your responses and positions. Master should eventually be able to simply name a position, and you will take it without explanation. Your responses to Master's calls (e.g., "What are we doing right now?") should be sincere, but automatic. A good sub thanks her Master for any gift of pain or pleasure. A good Master punishes his sub for any transgression (usually with pain), and rewards her when she does well (with praise, an orgasm or, in our case, vibes). In person, a reward can be a favorite touch, or a stiff cock to play with. There's a saying in the Dom/sub community that I love: "The art of a Master is not imposing dominance, but earning submission." Good communication and trust are indispensable. I will never ask you to do something that is unsafe, or seems beyond your capabilities, but part of my responsibility as a Dom is to find your limits, and stretch them a bit. Your responsibilities as a sub include telling me when we are near a limit, and being aware of your body and its limitations. I have been remiss about safewords. They are very important. If you need me to stop for any reason at all--too much pain, you're in an uncomfortable position, you just don't like what we're doing--say "Red." I will stop the scene immediately and we'll talk about what needs to change. If we're close to a limit, like too much spanking, say "Yellow," and we'll ease off or slow down. For example, when I told you to lick your squirt and ATM, if either of those was just too much at that moment, you could have used a safeword. Or you can just tell me in a simple, clear way. Safewords are most important when you're scening in person and your partner could actually harm you or ruin the scene if things continued. I'm just learning to read you, but you don't seem to enjoy the flogging much. Lots of women are very into pain, but some just aren't, and that's fine. I don't want to do things you don't like. Let me know. Also, tipping you 144 before you're warmed up seems to hurt you. I don't want to hurt you, unless you like it. I'm enjoying our play very much, Trixie. I look forward to more scenes with you. Tell me if there's ANYTHING you'd like to try. I'm open to almost anything sexual that you can imagine, except for guy-on-guy. And if there's anything we can't do on CB, we could meet on Skype. If you ever want to reach me, use hawaiiissi@gmail.com. You seem to enjoy showing off your hot body. I love your Public Reading photo set. We should talk about sex in public sometime. Say, me vibing you in a taxi or a store while we Skype. So fun! -Master Will